SELECTIVE SEARCH - EXECUTIVE MATCHMAKERS

TALENTED. DISCERNING. INTELLIGENT. EMPATHETIC. PASSIONATE.

Founded in 2000, Selective Search is the nation’s leading elite matchmaking firm, where executive search meets personal matchmaking. Selective Search has assembled an extraordinary team with the shared objective of fostering exceptional partnerships. Our culture is part of what sets us apart from other dating services and matchmaking companies. We don't just talk about collaboration, we live it. 

Learn more about Selective Search


At Selective Search, we believe in the magic of a perfectly matched partnership. Our origin story is a testament to this belief, born out of a desire to transform the landscape of luxury dating and professional matchmaking.

The Story of Selective Search


Are You Ready To Meet Your Future?

We invite you to learn more about our proprietary Meet Your Future process.

Why Selective Search?

  • Selective Search Matchmakers have over 150 years of combined experience and work collaboratively with our researchers, recruiters, a full-service marketing department and other professionals who are dedicated to helping our clients find the perfect match.

  • The Meet Your Future process was developed from an expansive study of relevant industries such as: executive search, psychology, traditional matchmaking, and sociology. We continue to evolve and develop our best-in-class methods. This innovative process has enabled Selective Search to become the nation’s elite matchmaking firm.

  • As a matchmaking company, we differentiate ourselves from other dating apps and services in that our mission is to find our clients a lifelong partner. With over 4,000 happy couples – our results can last a lifetime. Selective Search is the elite matchmaking service for anyone looking for a long-term committed relationship. We acknowledge that success can mean various things to our clients, including marriage, starting a family, blending families, and long-term relationships.

  • Confidentiality is a foundational component of our process. Selective Search understands the role a matchmaking service should play – behind the scenes. For over two decades our team of seasoned professionals have safeguarded the time, privacy, and preferences of busy, private individuals who value productivity, transparency, and results.

  • Love is one of the most important aspects of life. We want you to invest in a lifetime of happiness. Much like the executive search process, our contract pricing varies based on the specific needs of each client and considers the complexity of the search. Our clients have found our pricing to be inconsequential compared to the value of finding love. As a member of Selective Search, you can expect confidential concierge-level professionalism at every step in the process. After all, love is the only thing, worth everything.

Sharing the Love

We also share the love with worthy causes. Our team supports local and national charities  through donations and volunteered time. We find it’s a meaningful way to give back, foster team spirit, and inspire each other about causes we hold close to our hearts. We’re proud to have sponsored numerous events and charities throughout our history.